Efek Toxic Parenting terhadap Perilaku Sibling Rivalry Siswa


DOI: https://doi.org/10.26539/pcr.511674

Tri Windi Oktara(1*), Miswanto Miswanto(2), Lira Erwinda(3),

(1) UIN Sultan Maulana Hasanuddin Banten
(2) Universitas Negeri Medan
(3) Universitas Bina Bangsa
(*) Corresponding Author

Abstract


Tujuan dari penelitian ini adalah untuk menggambarkan pengaruh toxic parenting  terhadap sibling rivalry. Sampel penelitian ini adalah 123 siswa yang dikumpulkan dengan teknik sampling insidental. Penelitian ini menggunakan dua kuesioner dalam pengumpulan data penelitian, yaitu toxic parenting Scale dan sibling rivalry Questionnaire, yang dianalisis secara deskriptif dan regresi linear. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan toxic parenting berpengaruh terhadap sibling rivalry. Disamping itu, toxic parenting berkontribusi terhadap sibling rivalry sebesar 27.7% dengan koefisien regresi bernilai positif, dapat dinyatakan bahwa pengaruh toxic parenting terhadap sibling rivalry adalah positif, yang memiliki makna kenaikan toxic parenting akan menyebabkan peningkatan sibling rivalry. Sehingga dapat dinyatakan untuk mengurangi pertengkaran sesama anggota keluarga bisa melalui pola asuh yang demokratis tanpa adanya pengasuhan toxic pada anak. Temuan lain menunjukkan laki-laki sedikit lebih merasakan pengasuhan toxic dibandingkan dengan perempuan dan berbanding terbalik dengan data sibling rivalry menunjukkan perempuan sedikit lebih sering melakukan perilaku sibling rivalry dibandingkan laki-laki, hal ini ditandai sebaran data perempuan lebih tinggi daripada perempuan. Diharapkan dengan adanya penelitian ini, layanan konseling keluarga dan seminar tentang parenting untuk meningkatkan pola asuh demokratis pada keluarga millenial saat ini lebih sering diadakan pada saat rapat komite.

Keywords


Toxic parenting; Sibling rivalry; Gender; Pola Asuh; Orang Tua

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